How to know when a parent needs more care
Deciding whether it's time for elder relatives to make new living arrangements takes the keen observation and the subtle questioning of a Sherlock Holmes, says Susan Fleischer, president of the National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers. Elders minimize and camouflage difficulties. Adult children and caretaker spouses struggle with guilt and fear. Denial is common. "Making the decision is about 50 percent emotional and 50 percent reality," says Linda Fodrini-Johnson, past president of the national association and executive director of the Eldercare Services in San Francisco. The decision about what to do frightens people so much that they delay recognizing problems, says Lue Taff, geriatric care manager for Dallas' the Senior Source. "People always think they're going to have to make a move," she says, "but if there are funds, people can often stay in their homes." She recommends first focusing solely on whether the fami...
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